I have some bad news. My laptop may have completely died. I am going to make some last ditch efforts, but it doesn’t look good.
I am using a public computer right now and will try to continue posting when possible. I will not have any pictures or videos until I get some things figured out.
I came across Alex on a Saturday while I was delivering some donated items to Tommy from Day 155 (he was so thankful for all the love that has poured out for him). Alex was sitting on a crate just a few feet away trying to find some relief from the sun’s sweltering rays.
Originally from Robertson County, North Carolina, Alex, or “Country” as some of his friends call him, moved to Washington, DC when he was 18. Now 56, he has lived here ever since, with the exception of some time spent in federal correctional facilities in Petersburg, VA and Lorton, VA. “It was crazy in there…I mean people would take lawn mower blades and use ‘ em as weapons.” Anytime a recipient tells me that they have served time I am naturally curious as to what they were convicted of. Country tells me that he broke into a Budweiser Warehouse and was caught…although he doesn’t specifically ever say that was the reason for his incarceration. He also shares that he had a crack cocaine addiction which came between him and his wife and five children. “My wife wouldn’t even talk to me on the phone no more.”
But this is all in the past. Country seems to be doing ok now. “I don’t got another run in me, not at this age,” he says pulling his lips tight together. “I don’t do no drugs no more. I ain’t gonna lie to you though, I have myself a beer or two in the evenings.” He tells me that he is being extremely honest with me. “People lose interest with ya when you lie to ‘em,” he says as he wipes the sweat beads that have formed above his brow. It’s warm and the air is thick.
Today he is back together with his wife living a very modest life in Southeast DC. “At least I got a roof over my head. It’s not ideal, but it’s something. We don’t got furniture, or things like that. The bed has bed bugs…I can’t seem to get rid of them. ”
He talks about his life now compared to before. “You get to a point where you need to find a higher power, whatever that is.” Despite his efforts he says that he cannot find work and comes out to ask for money in front of the CVS at the corner of M Street and 29th Street in the affluent Georgetown neighborhood. Country says that he would like to get a job doing construction, something he has done in the past. “I need some tools though, nobody gonna hire you if you show up with nothing.” He tells me that he needs a pair of size 10.5 wide steel toed work boot, carpenter’s tool belt, and a long steel claw hammer. I told him that I would put that on my Lend a Hand section and see what we could do.
Country was going to use the $10 for bus fare.
Update July 7, 2010: I recovered some of the files and added pictures and the following video. He has some great comments!
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Hmmm. Hard to tell from just a 2:21 minute video clip, but I’m not sure I believe he was sober. I am also confused by him saying that he is homeless, carrying a sign that says he needs money for a motel room, and tells you that he has a roof over his head with his wife. So not sure how honest he’s being; but surely he is in more need than many. I hope he is clean and can find employment soon, regardless of his housing situation.
You might be right on your points. Keep in mind that many people are technically homeless who do have roofs over their heads. -Reed
Reed,
I sometimes find it difficult to read your posts wihtout tears streaming down my face like they are now. So many of these stories really touch ones heart. Is your Lend A Hand up to date because I would like to help someone out the little that I can? I am looking forward to reading the rest your daily blogs.
Hi Annette! So many of the people I met touched my heart too. Lend A Hand is pretty much up to date. That is wonderful of you to offer to help.
I might have a hard time finding Alex but if you wanted to send him something I can check with Tommy who might know if he is around and if so where he is these days.
Email me at reed@yearofgiving.org about how you might like to help someone on the list and we will work something out.
-Reed
I can’t believe someone down rated my comment! I am not without compassion, and the point Reed makes about people being technically homeless while still having a roof over their head is a great one. I guess people confuse questioning someone’s honesty with not having any compassion for the situation they are in… I don’t. I value honesty very highly, so it disappoints me when someone isn’t honest; but that isn’t to say I don’t understand the reasons why and furthermore have compassion that the man is in need. Anyway, somebody should go ahead and down vote this comment too 😦