If you are curious about the demographics of the recipients of my Year of Giving, check out the following charts and graphs. Although I don’t know what the percent is, I am sure there is a small margin of error, mostly due to wine being consumed during the calculation of the statistics.
I am trying to get some charts and things up here, but have not been able to do that. I have put some basic statistics below. Check back and hopefully I can get this working.
Average age of recipient: 38
Male: 65%
Female: 35%
Where the money went:
- 30% Food & Beverage
- 16% Gave to someone
- 11% Transportation
- 9% Alcohol
- 7% Rent/Utilities
- 7% Bought something for others
- 7% Church
- 5% Bought something for themself
- 2% Savings
- 2% Unknown
- 1% Cigarettes
- 1% Education
- 1% Lottery Tickets
- 1% Laundry
Where recipients are from:
- 50% DC
- 19% MD
- 16% VA
- 7% PA
- 2% MO
- 1% VT
- 1% CA
- 1% IL
- 1% GA
- 1% NY
- 1% NC
- 1% MI
- 1% UK
Diversity:
- 52% Caucasian
- 33% African-American
- 7% Hispanic
- 2% Asian
- 6% Other
Visitors from 115 countries have accessed the Year of Giving:
Afghanistan, Albania, Argentina, Aruba, Australia, Austria, Bahamas, Bahrain, Barbados, Belarus, Belgium, Bermuda, Brazil, British Virgin Islands, Bulgaria, Cameroon, Canada, Chile, China, Colombia, Costa Rica, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Dominican Republic, Ecuador, Egypt, El Salvador, Estonia, Ethiopia, Finland, France, Georgia, Ghana, Gibraltar, Georgia, Germany, Greece, Guadeloupe, Guam, Guatemala, Guyana, Hungary, India, Indonesia, Iran, Iraq, Ireland, Israel, Italy, Ivory Coast, Jamaica, Jordan, Kazakhstan, Kenya, Kuwait, Latvia, Lebanon, Liberia, Libya, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Macedonia, Malaysia, Malta, Mauritius, Mexico, Moldova, Monaco, Mongolia, Morocco, Mozambique, Nepal, Netherlands, Netherlands Antilles, New Zealand, Nigeria, Norway, Pakistan, Philippines, Peru, Poland, Portugal, Qatar, Romania, Russia, Senegal, Saudi Arabia, Serbia, Seychelles, Singapore, Slovakia, Slovenia, South Africa, South Korea, Spain, Sri Lanka, Suriname, Sweden, Switzerland, Taiwan, Thailand, Trinidad & Tobago, Tunisia, Turkey, Turks And Caicos Islands, Uganda, Ukraine, United Arab Emirates, United Kingdom, United States, US Virgin Islands, Vietnam, Venezuela and Yemen.
Great stuff Reed! Let’s talk soon! – Kipp
I am curious to know about what percentage of the people you give to look like you and what percentage don’t. I think its interesting how many people feel like they should give the money to someone who “deserves” it. I think another way to translate that perhaps is that they are uncomfortable with the notion that someone looked at them and thought they needed $10. I wonder if that feeling in some (possibly small) way inspired the year of giving. You found yourself in a vulnerable position, needing help. A great way to deal with neediness is to find someone more needy than you and give to them. It empowers you. It is also somewhat self serving. Just a thought.
why the 3 up and 15 down rating folks? she speaks it out loud, while we ponder it in our heads… it’s not that it’s a bad thing, and if anything it takes into account one more bit of info that could be captured. the problem is that it cannot be captured by the person putting the money out there, as then it becomes a factor in the determination of who gets it.
this IS a good thing. most give to charity because their church tells them to, or to get a tax write-off. the experience of this process is worth more to so many more now that it’s getting all this attention. I haven’t read if off unemployment yet, but perhaps this is a way to get there… maybe something bigger comes from the pub of this personal project. the fact that it’s getting pub at all doesn’t make it any less important.
I’m wondering if you have even read the site? He states flatout that he gives it to all sorts of people not just those that appear “needy.” Although I see your point, that giving to the less fortunate makes others feel better, I don’t necessarily think that is what is going on here, or that that is even a bad thing.
Sad but expected there is a”glass half empty” person at every turn of a good deed. You certainly have a right to your opinion, I am just sorry it’s ridden with skepticism. I personally am a “glass half full” kind of person and think this was a wonderful idea and gesture!
Bridgette. You seem like a bitter person, only a bitter person could think like you do.
I am so glad the world doesn’t depend on people like you for charity, because I don’t think you could find anyone who looks like you!
Self serving!?!? Have you lost all there is about helping others? Are YOU completely insensitive?
I hope you are never down, never need help or never are hungry.. and if you are, I hope there are people like this gentleman around to help!
I have been broke with a son, worked, got back on my feet… actually worked 2 jobs, didn’t take handouts, food stamps or any gov. assistance……… and I did it.. and I NEVER hesitate to help someone in need and my children have been raised giving and doing for others.
Too bad your children will be seflish and go thru life like you, with their nose in the air!
your just jealous that someone else has the heart to give something you dont
I think it is really important to be aware of our motives in giving. Spend a little time in the “giving” world and you see people have lots of different reasons for it. So I think B’s question is relevant to all giving, although maybe a little harshly stated. (Not that some of the replies weren’t downright vicious!)
Hey Reed,
I just happened to stumble upon your website and have spent the last 2 hours just reading and watching your videos! I dont usually take out such big stretches of time devoted to just one website and don’t even usually wander off like this, away from work/studying on my computer.
While reading some of the stories posted, I couldn’t help but feel a sense of connection with every single one of your recipients. Your warmth and friendliness can so easily be seen in the people who are all touched by your multiple random acts of kindness, which allow us to feel each other’s situations and wish them well in our hearts. You bring out their story to the world and many of them deserve this because they help others besides their tough position in life.
For many people, it is easier to give out money but not time. There are others who are the opposite, but only give out their time if they get something in return —- BUT in the case with Emily on Day 99 with Ben & Jerry’s Donation Program, I was amazed by the way you comforted her by accompanying her until she was not alone anymore, and you had no ulterior motive besides the goodness and selflessness in your heart for another human being.
I wish you all the best in each and every one of your endeavors in life and am sure that things will turn around for you sooner than you know it.
As everybody struggles in life, you have found a way and the courage to spread love and friendship in this unfair world, providing hope for us to unite and alleviate each others’ problems by being concerned about the well-being of a complete unknown stranger.
May God Bless You!
I’m sure your Mother is in heaven Smiling down on you! May God continue to bless and guide you~
I love this! I’ve been doing this in California, but didn’t actually blog about it. A year of giving can mean many things for many people.
I blog about my other adventures where I knock on fruit tree owners doors and harvest fruit of the hungry. One year. One woman. Over 50+ tons of produce later…and thousands of new friends I’ve met in my own neighborhood.
I love this and will read more soon. Keep up the good work.
-A Year of Fruit Harvesting (Giving)
The Lemon Lady
I love what you are doing Anna! Keep it up! -Reed
I believe what you are doing is fantastic. About 6 monthsago, after three and 1/2 years of trying to keep afloat after my husband lost his job, and coming to the realization that we might loss our house eventually, I decided to do something nice for a total stranger every day. It made me feel better knowing that although my family will not have a place to live I could still help people around me and teach my three teenage children the same thing.
Some times The people I offer to help want the helping hand, other times they look at me like am a crazy but usually it is appreciated. Its nice to see that your generosity is touching others. Maybe if more people thought about those around us this world might be a better place.
Although I dont know you thank you for being kind to others.
Reed,
As a mother of three I know how proud your mother would be of you. I love the idea of giving back and have dreamed of doing this myself. As a family we have done many projects similar but never on the scale of yours. You have inspired me to share this with my two college age children and high schooler and we will try to organize something in Alabama for your June day of giving.
Thanks for the inspiration!! God bless you and all of those your life has touched!
Lisa
Dear Reed,
You are no longer unemployed. You are a social worker, humanist and a psycho-therapist.
As a filmmaker and screenplay writer myself… I can tell you;
If you wish you have the makings of a Novel, Screenplay and a Documentary film there.
I would say “Be good” but YOU already are.
Martin
Your Mother would be proud. She did a good job raising her son 🙂
This is a wonderful thing that you are doing! Your story is inspiring, to me, and, hopefully, to a lot of people who hear about this.
Before reading this, I have sat feeling sorry for myself and my and my family’s financial situation. When I stopped and read this it made me think, “Oh, boo hoo! Suck it up! Things could be a hundred times worse!” And that is exactly what I’m going to do.
So, thank you, I will now come up with a way to make a small difference everyday in a life of a friend, neighbor, family member, or complete stranger!
God Bless You!
It’s great that you are doing something that inspires people. There will be people who read this and do something themselves and that’s what it’s really all about. If we all did something little we will make a big difference. It’s at least gonna help your Karma a lot! Good Luck
I really enjoyed the story. If everyone gave abit of their time even to help someone the word would smile even brighter.
I hope everyone rememebers june 15th
Lori Gaudette
I truely get and can relate to your mission. The gift you have is something you are born with and I feel it cannot be taught. The fact that your a disciple of bringing back self worth is beautiful. Alot can be learned by paying respect to people no matter where they are from, who they are or what issue may be going through.
May they name a humanitarian award after you or your mother for bringing back the teaching that being rich is not how much money or material things you have but how many lives you touch and possibly change.
Your Mother is bragging about you up in heaven!!! ;0)
Sounds like a great movie could come of this. I love the human spirit!!!!
PA
thumbs up to you, thank god for people like you, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your willingness to help others for what ever your reasons may be, who cares what the reason is, what matters is that you care, you care in a world where people are so self aborbed that they have forgotton what it means to help someone in need.
God bless you!!!!! and good luck in your journey
god bless you
I am interested in helping with your project in December. Please let me know what items you need donated. I am located in Maryland and have been looking for some way to give this year!
What a great thing you’re doing. I hope your story inspires people to more kindness towards strangers, whether giving them money or not.
My friend on crutches was at a grocery store, when coming out she saw an elderly woman struggling with packages and one of them fell. My friend, who’d had knee surgery, went over to help her but NO ONE else did. No men, no women, everyone too busy to take a moment to help. I hope they read about what you’re doing and make a change in their own lives.
Bless you and I hope you get a great position, book deal, reality show, the works! I’d watch a reality show that focused on the good people can do for each other, NOT bimbos and himbos from “insert geographical region here”
Hi Reed, isn’t it fascinating what just one statement from a mother can make on the child, society and Cyber space for that matter ! Well done.
Bridgette — you are a dope. Any act of goodness is self serving in some way as it makes the person giving feel good. If Reed is giving, but not asking for anything in return how can you view this as a bad thing? I don’t know Reed, but believe in what he is saying. While I do not give $10 a day, I often do random acts of kindness for strangers. You should try it some time instead of judging someone for trying to make a positive difference.
Good job Reed — you are making a difference. Heal the World!
I am facinated by what you are doing. I have been doing a lot of thinking about acts of kindness lately. When someone does something as simple as opening a door for me it has a profound affect on me. I can’t explain why I have been thinking so much about this, maybe it is just getting older and thinking about what am I going to leave on this earth. I hope to always be remembered for being a kind and generous person. I want to touch as many people as possible. Thanks for sharing your story and I will be following your progress!
LOVE IT!
Dear Reed:
I think it is a wonderful thing you are doing-inspiring people to give. I have always been a giver and it has come back to me many times. I am a Real Estate broker and handle several rental units in a rather poor section of our town. About 18 years ago, I rented an apartment to a single mom who had been in an abusive situation and was struggling to make ends meet. She had several small children and was receiving food stamps but her income was too much to go on Section 8 (HUD asssistance). Well, she began to fall behind on her rent so I took it upon myself to subsidize her rent. This helped her get back on her feet and today she is doing fine (no longer renting from me). Over the next 18 years, I decided to do this for other people in my rentals to the tune of over $50,000.00. Well the blessings started to flow! My business almost doubled, I met the woman of my dreams and I now own a large home free and clear, have everything I ever dreamed of and am still subsidizing people’s rent. It has given me such a good feeling to know that I have made a difference in people’s lives. Most of these people had no one else to help them and would have been homeless without my help. If more people of means would help others in this way, think what a better world we would have!
That’s beautiful Chris. Thanks for sharing and inspiring. -Reed
Wow! God says to give and it will be given back. Your comment here is truth of what he says. God Blessed you abundantly! I am happy I took the time to read all the comments. Of course I rated “up” for you. Thanks for sharing your story also.
I love your project. I think it saved my life. I lost my father when I was a kid, and I’m losing my mother to terminal brain cancer. I’m going back to school to become a Special Ed. Teacher, and she devoted her life to giving back (She was a nurse, and volunteered her entire life). I’m trying to make sense of everything but it’s hard. Today was a bad day for me…I wanted to give up. But reading your story, I think I may have changed my view. I think I should keep working hard so I can keep giving back. I think you may have saved me…
Wonderful….. simply wonderful. I will share with you what I have done. I am also unfortunately unemployed. I do something similar. When I meet people whether its a waiter in a restaurant who is a college student who tells me he can’t get home for christmas or a bathroom attendant who is on the phone talking to her child about what to eat for dinner….it is that time that I hear a voice inside me say “this is the one” and i pull whatever I have in my wallet and give it to them. The look of shock, graciousness, and pure joy is the most wonderful, fulfilling, enriching thing I encounter. There are no words….:) Keep going….you now have another fan… all my best. Pam
Reed………when you have a chance, e-mail me your resume. I’m currently looking for honest hard working individuals to be a part of and to help grow my business. Maybe you’ll fit the profile I’m looking for and maybe not…….let’s see!!!!
Mr. Edge
Great project!!
What a positive reaction to becoming unemployed, you have had. Rather than becoming a turtle and retreating into your own shell, your life seems to have evolved into a more meaningful experience.
I talk to strangers everyday, listening to their stories (whatever they may be), at times finding great insight or other times finding humor in life. People close to me think I should not talk to strangers, as they might be “dangerous, and who knows where it might lead”, but my soul feels enriched and I’ve heard some great stories.
You look like a nice fellow, enjoy your life and your stories, as we only have but one life (for a time) to live.
Hi, I would like to let you know that what you are doing is beautiful. It is a very inspiring story in today’s world of the fear of the unknown. Keep doing this, and maybe someone else will be able to pick up where you leave off!
This is a very interesting project. I plan on giving on June 15th to keep it going. I think that if they world had more giving and sharing people, we could eliminate a lot of problems.
I recently had dinner with my big sister and brother in law who own 4 distinctly huge houses in the Uk and abroad. We’re broke, the recession has really hit us hard, the usual story of little to no money but at least we’re still in our house. My sister is the legal guardian of our children and she asked for that status to be changed as we are not as rich as them. She said she wouldn’t be a legal guardian unless the children ‘were left’ with money. We’re not rich at all, but I still give every month to Unicef, Save the Children, Orbis and the horse relief charity because I know they NEED my 4€s a month. I think the Year of Giving is a great phenomenon but only the people ‘without’ would think of participating. The really rich just simply look after their own. Sometimes you can find a philanthropic person but no-body like this guy.
Hi there
If I were you, I would find another guardian for my children. Your sister has nothing to offer them.
Reed,
Someone sent me an email about your site. I am intrigued by your mission. I have been listening to some motivational CDs trying to get some discipline and direction in my life at a later age. All of the speakers I have listened to, state that in order to receive, you must be willing to give, be it money, time or of your talents. I have had this idea of writing a book about ordinary people. Just the person on the street. Stop them and just talk to them, but more importantly, listen to them. Have them tell me a story, be it happy or sad. After talking to a number of them, compile a book of them and see where it goes. There are all types of books about what the so-called famous people have to say, but I believe there is so much to be learned by listening to the average person. You have started doing this very thing and I can imagine how rewarding it must be for you. Don’t let the naysayers like one of the other comments deter you. It is your gig, you pick the people and keep on with what you are doing.
God bless you.
I commend you for what your doing. Can you tell me what Stats software or program you are using to track your visitors and your recipients information that calculates your percentage of where there from,there gender,there ethnecity.etc,. Thank you and God Bless your efforts.
OM
Hi Oscar, for the demographics you mention, it’s a very low tech solution. I enter all the data into Excel and then tabulate it manually about every 2 weeks. For the country data I use information from StatCounter.com.
You are an amazing person, and I wish the world had more people like you!! Just the other day I was at the beach and saw a mother and daughter picking up trash and filling a large trash bag, I helped for a while. I then let her know if there were more people like her, the world would be a much better place. Like you taking the time to do the smalest thing can really make an impression on others. To some people $10 is not that much, but to others it could mean the world. I just hope that people grasp the inspiration you are showing and really run with it. Your mother was a brilliant woman to give you such great morals and valuse. You have made the world a little more brighter. Thank you!!
awsome job. your what makes this country great!
I like!!!! Its something different to do and its a nice gesture. What’s the funniest thing that has happened to you while trying to give someone $10? I wish you the best and I hope you find a good job too. We all know you deserve it.
Reed, Thank you for listening to your Mother. She carried the wisdom of 100 wise men! YES she would be proud of you and yes it would only be because of what you are doing – no matter who you are!
Thank you and tashi deleg (auspicious blessings).
What a great idea! It is refreshing to see someone who is having challenges now interested in giving to others.
I too was laid off in late 2008 due to the economy. I could have sat and taken my unemployment and felt sorry for myself, but instead, I too chose to volunteer while I looked for another job.
Even after finding another (better) job – something that is a rarity in this economy, I continue to volunteer and help people through difficult times in their lives. I have found it to be truly fulfilling and I know that I am making a difference in someones lives on every call that I take.
Good luck in your job search and congratulations for constructively using this time in your life.
Hi Reed,
This is one of the most interesting and considerate things I have heard of in a long time. Your thoughtfulness of others and of your mother’s teaching is to be admired. I have great respect for you and what you are doing. I’m sure all of these people have been touched beyond words by what you are accomplishing with your work.
God Bless You
Very inspiring
Saw your story on AOL. How inspiring. I being a Christian, see your act as a step in faith that somehow God–or whoever you believe in–will take care of the rest, like you finding a job. It also makes me think of the Pay It Forward movie.
My husband had been out of work for exactly a year and 3 weeks ago finally landed a 2 month contract as a product manager. Because I work also, when he lost his job, he was able to be home to help my young son do his homework–something which my son had been having difficulty staying on track with. He was also able to make sure our teenage daughter was behaving over summer vacation when she would have been left to her own devices had my husband NOT been laid off. I firmly believe his job loss was meant to be so that a parent was around to parent this crucial period in our daughter’s life last summer. His presence has paid off dividends as I believe our daughter is back on the right track and making friends with the behaving kids.
Your journey in your time off from work has a purpose too. Many people have benefited and learned from you.
Best wishes on your job search. BTW, two tools that my husband found very helpful: joining Linked In and joing an accountability group.
Good luck and God bless you!
I think this is great. People change even at a small amount of money. One time we were out on the street playing music, a young black man came up to me with a dozen or more racial slurs, I handed him $5. He changed immediately. Gathered his friends around me and said, “This preacher lady wants to pray for you, let’s let her pray for us.” Here I am, with 5 very large men gathered in a circle, praying. Amazing what a little kindness will do.
I found your story on AOL’s HP front page and I have to commend you for your efforts! I am truly amazed and inspired by what you’re doing and if I could I would try and do the same thing just to try and get to know those in my area. (I’ve been unemployed and disabled for almost two years due to a car accident and had to move back in with my parents so money is extremely tight.) I’ve been thinking about what to do with the settlement money once I receive it and even if I only get a dollar (which I know I won’t but I’m usng it for emphasis) I plan on using part of that dollar to help others less fortunate than myself. I’ve only read your story and while I have to get ready for, yet another, doctor’s appointment I’m putting your site on my favorites so that I can come back and spend some time reading your stories and checking out the videos/pictures. I’m sure your mom would be VERY proud of you and I want you to know that somewhere in Arizona a 27-year-old woman who’s never met you is also extremely proud of you! Good luck and God bless!
What a wonderful thing to do. Not only are you helping someone that might need that 10.00 more then anyone can imagine but you are taking the time to make someone feel noticed that may be having a bad day or bad life. Taking time to know that person that maybe no one has paid attention to in a very long time. Yes the money is probably a help butt the time you are taking with the person might be life changing for that person. Sometimes just a little boost from a total stranger can change a persons day.
I am wondering if attaching a business card with your website on it maybe saying tell me your future thoughts might bring you so much more. There might be stories of how you turned someone’s life around.
You should get some sponsors/advertisers for your website that would help you continue or pass your journey to someone else that might not have 10.00 a day to do this.
God bless you. Hopefully you will have many followers. If only the world were filled with caring people like you.
If everyone took just a moment a day to talk to someone smile at someone or just say hello the world could turn around.
Thanks for everything you do..
Jenny
LOVE LOVE this is great stuff if only everyone was as nice as you…….
I WOULD GIVE MY $10 TO CHURCH ~ WHAT BETTER INVESTMENT THEN IN THE KINGDOM OF GOD ~
Bridgette. You seem like a bitter person, only a bitter person could think like you do.
I am so glad the world doesn’t depend on people like you for charity, because I don’t think you could find anyone who looks like you!
I love what you are. Years ago I was told by a salesman I respected greatly to leave a really huge tip (several times the amount of the bill) every month or so for someone who was extremely attentive or just gave fantastic service. It not only makes you feel good, it can have an incredible effect on the person receiving the tip. I have done this for years now and it still makes me feel fantastic.
I love what you do Byron! I worked several years in restaurant business…and trust me it’s pretty amazing when that happens. -Reed
Reed,
If only everyone would take the time to be GIVING to another person, what a difference this world would be.
After 29 years of working in the corporate world, I decided to leave the company, against everyone’s else’s beliefs and opinions, not to do so especially during this economy. I listened to my heart and retired and started giving back to others, volunteering and giving and let me tell you it’s been a REWARDING experience.
Listen to your heart and don’t allow other’s opinions stop you from what you WANT to do.
Keep sharing your gift (your kindness not the money) and touching the lives of others. You will FEEL the REWARDS. :>
God Bless You Reed
Nancy :>
Just a thought about Bridgettes comment. Sometimes “neediness” does not necessarily mean needing money. Sometimes you might need at that moment a smile, a hello, a helping hand, or a kind stranger. Just some gesture to let you know that mankind still cares. As far as being self serving, I like to feel good about good things I have done for others, and it makes me feel good to hear what other people have done as well. I would rather be labeled as self serving than to sit there and do nothing at all. We, as part of this great human existance, need more good feelings and happiess in these times. Life is short and if we feel good because we do good for others, thats OK with me!! Keep spreading happiness and caring Reed, and enjoy the wonderful stories people have to share.
Gloria.. hooray for you! You are right. I too have done random acts of kindness for years.
There was a time in my life that I had ZERO money to spare.. but my son and I always did volunteer things and today my entire family, husband and three children do lots of things throughout the year……… and you can bet we feel good about it.
You are right again about money not being the only thing that helps the needy.
I will never forget the face of a little boy who has Downs SYndrome, told me he needed to learn to tie his shoe.. I did volunteer work there one afternoon a week. I worked with him for almost a month and at last he could tie his shoe………………. I will NEVER forget how I felt at that time and seeing the smile on his face is priceless. I still remember him and his determination and his smile… So I gave but it wasn’t money!
How do you get the money you are giving out, e.g. is from your savings. I am sure you might have encountered those people who rejected it and made you feel like you were strange.
Hi Phyllis. I have been saving money every since I had starting working. Certainly some people reject the money, but I have learned to accept that as their choice. Of course I am a little disappointed, but I just get another opportunity to meet someone else, right? -Reed
Mr. Reed,
I read about your website on http://www.aol.com and was very intrigued by your story! I love the fact that even as you are going through hard times, you trust in God enough to know that everything will not only be okay for you, but that He is using you as a tool to help others as well. That in itself is truly a Blessing.
I would love to take $10.00 of my own and see how many homeless people my three daughters and I can feed here in Indianapolis, IN, since I am blessed to be working and provide for my family and myself.
I just wanted to show my appreciation for you and to thank you for “lifting up” my spirits today. 🙂 I hope to be able to show you pics of our journey later.
What you are doing is wonderful! I would love to give back myself but can’t at this time. My husband was laid off too however we have a family of 8 to feed and we dont have a home or a job. We have been staying with relatives. But through the grace of God we have been able to have hope everyday that things will get better. With people like you out here it proves that God is working through others to help those in need. $10 might not seem like much but it helps especially when your in need.
May God Bless you over and over again for your generousity.
I saw your picture on my hompage:AOL and was really interested because I saw your FLIP camcorder and thought it was cool because it looks just like mine. I am only thirteen and you have really inspired me. On June 15 I will be giving away ten dollars to… well I dont really know right now, but isnt that the whole point. I think it is a wonderfull thing that you are doing, and I believe that you will inspire many other people just as you have inspired me. I just visited DC and couldnt help but notice the people just sitting around on trash bags, and felt bad that I couldnt do anything about.Now I know that there is somthing that I, as a kid, can do. As I sit here, eating Chpis Ahoy and drinking Snaple, I can only dream about doing somthing as great as what you’re doing.
Hey Logan. I’m glad that reading about my story has moved you to think about giving and think about others. I encourage you to be creative and potentially do something in your own community or school. If you need someone to talk to about your ideas…write me at reed@yearofgiving.org. It’s ironic that you say in your message that I inspired you…because your message to me totally inspired me! Thanks Logan! -Reed
That is awesome! Both of you are truly inspiring people! Great going Logan and Reed!! 🙂
I love your story, right now we are struggling and sometimes only our 3 year old has a good meal and we have rice with what ever we can add to it. But we have a great blessed life with our family. My husband to is seeking work. I figure if we save .55 cents a day until June 15th we can help 3 people. I am going to do that and I will write you and tell you what happens 🙂
Ria and her family
That is very thoughtful Ria. Please note that I also say that people can give whatever they can on June 15th. Maybe you give $5 or you give of your time instead of giving financially. -Reed
Great story! I think it’s a wonderful thing to do. I LOVE to start a pay it forward at the fast food drive thru or at Starbucks, and my hubby and I love to pick out someone at a restaurant (an older couple, a family) and pay their tab as well. It’s always nice to do and it teaches our kids about being generous.
I especially like not that you are giving the money away, but that you have probably learned a lot along the way.
Good luck and God Bless!:)
Now you can ad two countries. I´m Icelandic, and living in Norway, so that must count for two, right? 🙂
By the way, I really like your consept, and think it is a very cool way to connect people from all over the world with every day people you meet.
I beleve your project is just the beginning of something much greater.
Just drop me a line if you think I could help out in any way!
Well stated Nikhil S.
I found myself doing the same thing . . . stumbled across this story duting my “down” time at work, and could not pull myself away from it. The comments of the participants and the readers of the blog are son unbelievably interesting. Sure many of the stories on the surface are mundane but I always wonder what happens to the people after they receive the $10??? Who they share their encounter with is much more important – – I believe – – than what they do with the money. I think that is the whole point, right? I heard a terrific minister in a sermon on a Sunday talk about how everything we do leaves an effect on someone or something. He compared it to jumping in water and the ripples that spread out. Makes me wonder how far Reed is rippling on others. . . how much am I rippling on others? Can’t even imagine how far Reed’s ripples are reaching. Makes me want to do more. Am I going to be a pebble that barely disturbs the surface, or am I going to “cannonball” into the water to see how far-reaching my impact will be? I hope the latter.
And as Nikhil (above) says, most will more easily give their money than their time. But giving time and listening to others – -to just sitting and being present to another person – – are our two greatest gifts. If we are going to give something, why not make it a really great gift of time? Or our presence? Or just listening?
I have been a family doc for 15 years and have been struggling to make ends meet in this crazy economic world. No fancy house. No nice car. Stretching every dollar to pay the bills and make sure I can get my kids a great education. Certainly no pity party for me, granted. But what I point to the most . . . what I claim as my greatest rewards . . . are my opportunities to sit with people and listen to whatever they want to talk about. Sure it doesnt help bring more $ to the practice, but it has made me richer than anything I could have imagined. Sometimes I know that I am the ONLY person in their world that truly cares about what they are saying and how they are feeling (and yes, many of these people are married). That for just a few moments in their day, someone really cares about them. Genuinely and sincerely cares.
Time. Maybe that will be my $10 that I give to people. And maybe the splash will reach farther than I could ever imagine. How about you?
Great comment Dr. Tim! I hope you don’t mind me using your pebble vs cannonball analogy! I love it! -Reed
Dr. Tim, you just gave me faith in doctors again. Wish I had a doctor like you. Loved your comment. Thanks for it!
Hey, I love it!
If you can post some of your thoughts on the psychology behind altruism. I’ll repost it on my FB page linking you’re website. I making a short narrative film, where subconscious self sabotage is the underlying theme.
For now I’ll repost your site.
ttyl,
Kelsey
Hi Kelsey, I am not a philosopher or a psychologist so I am not sure that I am the right person to share with you the psychology behind altruism. I recommend that you study Auguste Comte, the 18th cenury French philospher who coined the term. I am currently studying him. -Reed
Love is the only thing that we all have to give!! Love can come in many forms. It is sometimes the best gift to give knowledge that we have learned. I am a senior citizen that feels that we have lost the value of the older generation. They have soooo much to give and people do not understand that in this media based society. Media tells us that it is BAD to be old. I think that we as a nation need to take back our brained washed minds and see the value in an older person. Sometimes the best gift is just to value someone for all the many years that they have lived and value the knowledge that they have to give. Lots of love!!!
I agree with you about the value of the older generation ,
and when they are no longer here just think of all the knowledge that is lost . I can’t totally blame our media-based
society , i think it is caused by a combination of many factors
of which i feel the main factor is the destruction of the family
unit and the extended family due to the stresses of the modern world . This leads to lack of respect for elders and
without respect , younger people don’t value what the older
generation has to offer . I think we will suffer for not utilizing
the knowledge, much as we suffer for not studying and learning from history .
Personally , I had the privledge of spending lots of time with
my grandmother while growing up and i think it because of her i learned many things that books can not teach and these things are not on the internet . She passed away in 1993 but her teachings are still with me and i pray they will remain until my time is up . Thanks for your comment brenda b. and lots of love to you . Peace
Hey Reed, God bless you man from the bottom of my heart, I just happened upon your story as I went on line and it touched my heart. I too am unemployed (as a result of site consolidation to an out of state subsidiary), what you are doing is truly the epitomy of God’s love. We should indeed share love and bless others regardless of the circumstance, theirs or yours. Humanity abounds not just in your giving but much more in the sharing of time taken to listen to each of their stories and to then share it with others. Since leaving the pharmaceutical business (after 25 years), I have often wished there were some way that I could myself become a philanthropist to help people all over the world, If it is God’s will maybe someday I will, until then I pray you and others like you to continue to spread love throughout the world.
God Bless
What a wonderful gift you have given and are giving to these people! Your time and listening I am sure have meant so much more to them than the $10 gift. A saying I have heard most of my life growing up in the south “Your Mama raised you right” comes to mind.
This is also a wonderful way to honor your Mom and your upbringing.
I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and also keeping my fingers crossed on your job search and through out life. I know how hard it is out there on the job front, one of my sons has just gotten a job after 14 months of being out of work.
God Bless you and Keep you!
with all the good you are doing,it is gauranteed something good will happen out of this,it is called good karma
Way to go. When you give 1 apple you get 10 back. It is better to give than receive. This is what my Mom taught me. My goal is to make enough money so I can give it to people who really need it. This will happen. I swear and promice. Everyone should think this way.. The world would be a better place. 🙂 Smile always!!! Thanks
Hi. I just found your website because an article about you was on aol and I was interested in knowing more about you. I think your idea to give 10 dollars away a day to someone was a great idea. 🙂
Inspirational!!!! Your Mom would be proud. I’m sure she’s watching you and cheering you on as only a Mom can do. She must have been one heck of a lady to instill in you the humanity that you show others. Bravo… cheers and a WAY COOL!!! Now, I’m sure you could write a book on your experiences and it would be a best seller. We need more people to do what you are doing. I will try to participate in your Day of giving…but I’ll have to do it earlier as I will be recovering from my 2nd major surgery this year and will probably be house bound at that time. Thanks for showing us that kindness to your fellow man is still a worthwhile endeavor.
Thanks Marlea…good luck on your surgery! Stay strong. -Reed
Reed,
I used to be in the Marines and was stationed in Southern California from the years of 1991 to 1999. During that time frame I had a second job working at a local gas station at night to earn extra money as a newly married man.
There was this homeless man who lived behind the gas station and he was a serious drunk and would cause issues all night by arguing with himself. One night in mid February it was cold outside I got tired of his noise so I took a hose and soaked him. He left and for the next 90 days I never saw or heard from him again.
One day this man walks in and buys a cup of coffee and was still homeless and you could tell down and out. This man said you know I have to thank you for what you did to me. I was shocked because I had no clue on what he was talking about. He then told me he spent the last 45 day in the hospital because of how sick he got from me soaking him.
I was horrified by knowing I did that to one person. I asked why you are thanking me for being so mean. He said because I am now sober and if I wasn’t forced to sober up it never would have happened. We became friends and everyday he would come to the gas station and ask me if he could do something to earn a cup of coffee.
After a few months of getting to know this man I found out her grew up in Illinois near where I grew up and had been on the streets since after Vietnam. His family turned their back on him because he went over to fight the war.
So I started helping this man get his life in order and had him over for dinner and showered and cleaned his dog up. Finally got him to talk to his family and after all those years they had worried about him and wanted him to rejoin the family.
I bought him and his dog a plane ticket and a crate to get back to the Mid West and no he has his own place and a job and a complete new life.
So when they say what one person can do….? Well I guess one person can do a lot we just never try to make our efforts help make the change…
If we continue to all keep our kindness to our self this world will continue to fail.
Hi Dave! Hosing him down sounds a bit extreme, but I am glad that it ended the way it did. You were very generous to him later on and your story touched me. Are you in touch with this gentleman today? -Reed
Bridgette: If he’s giving the money to those who look like him, then Reed is definitely a white male. Or a black female. Or asian male. Or black male. Or asian female. Or white female. Rich. Poor. Homeless. Professional. On vacation. Working. Young. Old. Middle Aged. Definitely in need. Definitely not in need.
For those who want to “give” but don’t have the money? Give a kind word! Tell someone you like their shirt. Or that color looks great on them. Love their earrings. It’s painless, free, and priceless! You may make someone’s day.
Great going Reed – It’s nice to hear GOOD news for a change!
I think your giving is great. I’ve always believed in it. Whether it’s time or money. The world will be a better place once the idea catches on with the rest of the population.
GIVING FROM THE HEART… TRULY IN MY EYES, THAT’S ALL I SEE THAT MATTERS! THE VALUE IS YOU & WHAT YOU ARE CHOOSING TO DO. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THE VALUE OF YOUR EXPERIENCE AND CONNECTING WITH OTHERS…. THE VALUE IS NOT IN GIVING THE MONEY, IT’S IN SHARING YOUR HEART AND THE STORIES…. TRULY THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU! 🙂 I LOVE IT!
Stephanie, I totally agree. I tell people all the time, that in most cases the $10 is somewhat meaningless. For me, the greater value is in spending time with another human being and asking how their day is and really caring about the answer. Asking what their story is and really caring. Reminds me of what John told me on Day 40 when I asked him what the greatest gift he ever received was: “conversation.”
Reed
Reed, this comment sparked an idea in me after reading other comments and the post about Katy (111) who ripped up the $10. The $10 was meaningless to her, but the fact that you took time to sit down and talk with her meant enough to her that she took time out of her life to sit down and share her stories with you. Sometimes it isn’t at all about the money but about the people who care enough to take the time and effort to ask someone about their day or life. This is so inspiring.
Thank you for doing this! Keep it up!
The world needs more people in it do good things like this, and I don’t even feel it is about the money. Some people really just need that conversation. Bridgette needs a lot of pray in her life!!!!
I read your story when i was going to check my email on AOL. You are an extrordinary man to do this and im praying God Blesses you greatly for what you are doing.
Your story should remind us all that giving to others is important, no matter if it is money, a place to stay, a listening ear, or just a smile. You never know what may make a difference in anothers life. Thanks for reminding me that no matter how small it can make a difference!
It is heartwarming to know that in these uncertain economic times there are generous people like this gentleman. Ignore the Bridgettes of the world. I also grew up with a wonderful Mom with a heart of gold.
Your June 15th day of giving is a great idea. I hope hundreds of thousands people participate.
Thanks Regina. It’s encouraging how many people I have heard say that they will participate in the June 15th Worldwide Day of Giving. I look forward to all the stories on the site. Who knows, maybe a stranger will unknowingly offer me $10 that day! -Reed
Wow, Bridgette,
You tookan act that is something so kind and warm hearted, and basically turned it into a ugly selfish act. I mean goodness, Had you read everything and comprehended it well then you would know that it truly is about giving back!! and not about who is labeled as needy or less needy.
Good job on the year of the giving! It sounds really interesting. You video tape them and record what they do with the money too. I wish I thought of it but I don’t really have that kind of money, aha . Well I’ll try to follow you with your little adventure with giving. I really liked your little encounter with John the cart pusher. I’d really like to see who would get the 10$ on the big holidays, it’d might be cool. Like Christmas, or on the 365th day, New Years! It’d be cool if you gave someone the 10$ on they’re birthday, coincidentally. That would be kinda cool. Kay then, Good Luck and Keep On Giving!
Keep up the Good Work Mr. Sandridge Jesus loves you!
Reed I just wanted to say God Bless you for all your kindness. You will be surly blessed.
WOW, there is hope! I feel blessed to have read this story and visited your website! We have like minds, I commend you on thinking outside the box in the most positive of ways to help this world and enjoy conversation that is sure to nourish your heart and mind! Fantastic agenda…keep up the amazing work, time spent can make or break the soul and you are spending your time touching others on their time, wonderful….enough said!
~Kelli
Reed, I just read about your story and it is amazing. We pass by so many strangers daily and have no idea what they are going through. For all we know one of them could be going through the hardest time of their life and for them to see that there really still are good people in the world that care. That in its self, says a lot.
Whomever Bridgette is…You are very ignorant, I would be ashamed to make a statement or comment such as that. It’s people like you that cause people like me to have a hard time believing that people like Reed still exist in this world. I am grateful that there are still a few good ones out there.
it is great to know there are people out there that look at someone and choose to do a good thing for them i have done things like this in the past though not with money one time i was walking a good hour home from work and a lady that was older was walking as well she was dialisis we stoped at my home where i woke my wife and kids up and gave her a ride the rest of the way home i figure she had another two hours to walk before geting home … so where is i will give you a ride or help you out in pyhsical it is becouse i need the money for daily items if i have money i try to help if we all took the time and said that person is me and they need help i bet you would be more inclined to help them
I really love the commitment.. I do believed if you do something good.. many good things will be happened … even sometime you do not realize when this did happened .. good luck and be happy every day because that bring to you life more happiness .. (From Nicaragua whit love)
How do you find 52% Caucasian in DC?
Have you ever heard of tourists ?
I love what you are doing, it’s really not about the money. It’s that you are going up to these people and inquiring about their lives and showing care to people that may not have anybody to listen to them or care about them. And the gift you are giving to everybody who reads this blog and all the amazing comments are getting the best gift of all.
I think what you are doing is awsome. May God Bless you and continue to guide you threw this journey everyday. Stay safe
just read about your story on AOL while I was checking my email. I must applaud you for what you are doing. In an era where GREED is king you are showing us how important giving back to help the next man is.
What a wonderful gift, not only the $10 you give each day but the gift of yourself just listening to others who may otherwise have no one else to talk to.
Count me in on June 15th.
Thanks for the inspiration. Peg
Reed,
You are becoming an amazing person. I am worried about you though. How is the job hunting coming? You need someone to help you so you can get a job. What did you do when you were laid off? Do you still want to do the same thing or has all of this changed you permanently in some way? Not trying to take anything away from the wonderful things you are doing. Just concerned for you?
sincerely,
S. Taylor
My mother used to say that it is more blessed to give than to receive. She said that whenever she gave to someone it always worked out that she got back more in return. It seems to work that way for me too. Your giving will pay off (although I am sure that’s not why you are doing this) and you will find a great job or new direction in your life because of your giving. God bless you.
Reed,
Have you ever wondered why Mothers are so smart ? I wonder about mine every day. She also told me to give of “whatever you have to whomever you please and God will multiply it back to you”. I’ve tried to live by her saying and I’ve proven her truth over and over. I don’t know your religious belief and it doesn’t matter – but – you are living what the Bible teaches. “It’s better to give than to receive”. In giving you also receive.
Isn’t it wonderful? May God continue to bless you and what you are doing. He has opened many doors to you right now.
May I suggest that you approach that young lady from NY who put the $10. in the cup of bad coffee and ask her to connect you with someone who can turn this into either a movie, a book or a TV series. We need to see more good news on the flat screen to blunt the tragedies and sillyness that is on the news every night.
WOW!!!! What a wonderful story. I love giving to others in any way that I can, whether it’s money, or my time…I have often left money at the cash register for people,or purchased food, or other items for those who need it, even when I was barely able to take care of myself. I truly beleive that when you give to others unselfishly that you receive so much in return.
What an amazing job your mother did at planting this seed in your spirit..you always reap what you sow, and you, my friend have a lot of reaping to do!!!!
You will find a job, but in the meantime, you have gained something much more meaningful and valuable then any job you will ever secure.
When you truly give from the heart God makes sure that all your needs are taken care of, and you will not want for anything. Wow…..I am so amazed with your actions….May God continue to bless you!!!!!
Reed– I am sure your mother would be so proud of you. I love the fact that you are giving people the opportunity to tell “their story”! We all have one, but are rarely given the chance to put it out there for the world to hear. You are changing so many lives and are sure to inspire others to do the same. What a postivie role model! I am going to start thinking of ways to participate June 15th! Peace and Grace! -Missy
This is amazing! I’m a student in DC and I would love to do this (maybe not $10 right away, college students have no money as it is). Once I save up some money I would love to help in anyway. It really makes you appreciate what you have and the life you’ve been given. Great job! Your mom would be so proud. I know I would be if you were my son. 🙂
Wow, reading your story was inspiring and kind of capped off my day. Today I worked at a place my family has been getting some food from. My husband lost his job 9 months ago and we were able to get by for a while but the last 3 months we needed help. In return they ask us to work helping others and it is amazing how empowering it is to “earn” your way.
As I sat down and took a break, an elderly gentleman sat down beside me. His body shook from Parkinson’s disease but his warm smile was genuine and kind. He and his wife are full-time volunteers. As elderly folks are wont to do he started talking to me about his work there and it led to several stories about his life; where he had lived, and worked, how he and his wife met, how they ended up where they are and choice experiences he felt inspired to share with me. We connected and I felt his interest in my situation. He shared words of wisdom he wanted me to pass along to my husband, who was at a job interview at that time. These were not trite, but good advice reminding us to continue reaching out in service to others, sharing compassion even as we had struggles of our own. We shared tears and I was not ashamed. Thank you Les, for your inspiration and wisdom. I will never forget.
Thank you Reed for the forum to share this wonderful experience and tie it in a small way to your own daily sharing. Ignore the naysayers, for those whom you may never know are touched will continue your legacy. God Bless you AND your dear mother.
Cool idea! I hope it catches on all over America, for there are so many people who need something good to happen to level off all the bad things going on around them. I loved reading about the way people used the money. With just a little bit, you can make a lot! As John Lennon sang—“Imangine”. People are awesome and it is fun reading or hearing about them Thank you for you are one of those “awesome” people!
Hey Bridgett, I deserve it!!!! I sent my story in just now and am now looking through this site. I really believe it was fate that I came upon it. I was just about to give up but now looking at my eight month old daughter’s eyes as I type this and read the words and the comments I see a possible hope. I go to bed every night worrying about the next day. Today, I hope I do not loose my car (had to pawn it two months ago to keep power on, had no choice, my kids come first and always will be glad to tell you the whole story if you want but I will not bore the rest of you who don’t want to know) it’s only three hundred and twenty dollars… funny there was a time that did not mean much to me. But it does now. My point is that what I see on the internet now are a great deal of scam that take advantage of the needy. That they can go to bed at night thinking it’s ok to take the last little bit anyone has and promise them the moon. But here, it seems people come first and the needs of others. I hope I can get the help I need so that I can help others like me out there. I just wish I was in that situation right now because I know of so many out there that are like me and my family are now. I want to thank Reed and all of you out there that have inspired me to not give up. Thank you.
Thank you Reed, this is truly a way to re-awaken the love in each of us for our fellow man. I have always received Blessings from anything I have given, be it time or money.
Would you consider putting a printable flyer on your site that we could pass to others in our circle to hopefully inform and recruit them to participate on June 15.
Give anything you can, anywhere you can, to anyone you can.