About Year of Giving…
The Year of Giving started officially on Tuesday, December 15, 2009 at 3:30 pm. The concept was simple. I gave away $10 to a different person every day for a year. I wrote about each person I intersected with as well as the unbelievable journey that ensued.
I had lost my job at a nonprofit organization due to the economic climate so taking on this endeavor may not seem like it was fiscally prudent. However, I think it is exactly these times that we must focus on helping others.
I embarked on my Year of Giving on December 15th, 2009 in memory of my mother who lost her long battle with heart disease on this day in 2006. She was a true altruist – always thinking of others before herself.
My goal wasn’t necessarily to change the lives of those with whom I came in contact. Let’s face it, $10 dollars is probably not going to change someone’s life in and of itself. I do believe, however, that the act of giving can inspire others to pursue the ideals that the French philosopher Auguste Comte envisioned when he coined the term “altruism.” Whether that comes in the form of someone who reads this blog and wants to create their own Year of Giving or someone who uses the $10 to help someone else out, the specific results are less important than the overall good that we can achieve together.
In December of 2010 the year came to an end and I embarked on two new journeys. The first involved sharing the unique experience of being a Kindness Investor for seven days with others who were out of work. Some of them choose to share their stories with me and I have posted them on the Year of Giving. In addition, I made a personal commitment in 2011 to volunteer once a week with a different organization and share that adventure here.
My latest project is called Anthony & Me – it’s a year-long experiment that pushes the boundaries of peer mentorship and social networking. After I finished the Year of Giving, I started to write a book about my experience. I’m not a professional writer (obviously!) and it has turned out to be more challenging that I expected. SO I’ve wanted to have someone who could help hold me accountable for my writing – you know give me deadlines and check to see if in fact I am writing on the days that I set aside for the book.
This is where Anthony comes in. He’s not a book agent or editor for some fancy publishing house. He’s a 55-year-old guy who has been homeless for more than a decade. In return for his help keeping me on track with my writing, I’ve agreed to help him get off the streets and into his very own apartment. You can follow our progress on the Anthony & Me blog.
Thanks for taking time to visit the site. I hope that you find yourself inspired today to do something special for someone. You would be surprised at how even something as simple as a smile or a thank you can make the difference in someone’s day. And remember, “happiness is only real when shared.”
About Reed…
I am 40 and reside in Washington, DC. In October of 2009 I became unemployed for the first time in my adult life which has given me the opportunity to pursue several personal goals as well as focus on giving and helping others.
I could bore you with stories about how I lived and studied a year of high school in the great city of Guasave, Mexico or how I accidentally knocked Sir Anthony Hopkins over as we got off a flight in Miami, etc. However, I would rather that you spend your time checking out some of the experiences that I have shared with the people I meet every day.
If you would like to contact me directly, you can send me email to reed@yearofgiving.org.
The title banner photo of the hand is courtesy of Amrit. More of Amrit’s photography can be found at http://www.flickr.com/photos/aksphotography/
This journey is interesting and meaningful on so many levels…two that I will mention. First, this is such a deliberate example of what I try to teach my children every day, that we are rich beyond measure and that we are on this planet to serve one another and live with purpose. Secondly, this is a beautiful way to honor a beautiful woman…you make her proud every day, always have, always will.
This is very commendable! Thanks for inspiring us to help and share in the needs of others.
hi reed. 🙂
many good things will come to you and those who are inspired by you. such a beautiful domino effect of happiness that will be shared and shared and shared… christopher mccandless would be very impressed. 🙂
i send much peace, love, and (shared) happiness to you.
Reed,
This is a neat concept, my wife and I enjoy the posts and videos. I have a quick question: are you currently receiving unemployment benefits and that is the means you are living by or are you getting by off of personal savings? Not judging, just curious.
Brian
Hi Brian…glad you and your wife are enjoying the Year of Giving.
Happy to answer your question. I was working at a nonprofit focused on reducing childhood obesity and was laid off. I applied for unemployment benefits back in October (when I was eligible for them). I only started receiving payments in January. I went ahead and started the Year of Giving in December before I was sure I would receive any benefits.
I am not a millionaire or anything like that. I have been fortunate to have good jobs in the past and have been smart to save some of my earnings for rainy days. Before starting the project, I sat down and tried to make the numbers work and see how long I could go until I would be forced to take any job that came around. I came up with about a year. Then I figured out how much I would have left for the Year of Giving. I first considered $5 each day, however, I really wanted to make it $10. I decided to forgo some work that I need to do on my condo as well as a vacation I was planning and was able to make it work.
I am actively looking for challenging and rewarding employment and hope to be back to work soon.
It was very nice meeting you this evening. Rob and I really enjoyed chatting with you and getting to know about what you are doing. It’s nice knowing that someone like you is out there just trying to make someone have a great day. This site is fantastic and I can not stop reading these stories ! I hope you have a great time meeting so many different people.
Thanks to both of you…it was nice to meet people in Roanoke! Your story will be posted in 2-3 days.
Totally the wrong place for this message but you are really cute.
Oh…and you’re doing good young Skywalker.
Dear Reed, I am so encouraged by your “Year of Giving” and Love your blog. My Precious Mom passed away on May 6,2009…we buried her on Mother’s Day.She was the most Kind,giving person I have ever known.Her favorite word picture she would use when teaching about kindness was “Life is like a pond…we either throw stones of kindness or hatefulness and it ripples out and effects so many”. Thank-you for “Throwing the right stones…and effecting me today!” If you ever come to Fort Payne,Alabama…drop me an e-mail before you visit so my family can be a Blessing to you with a Great Southern Meal!!!! You have inspired me! Smile,Paula 🙂 Psalms 121
Hello!
Just read about what you are doing for people.
It is so inspirational for others!
Wishing you much happiness and luck with finding a new job.
I hope you get a book or movie deal! 😉
Peace, Love & Happiness
Michelle 🙂
Congratulations! You have discovered a way to improve the world each day. I read the article about your philanthropic daily adventure, and I smiled and smiled. What a wonderful idea. I then found your website, and have come to realize you are only doing what comes most naturally to you every day. You are getting out there, meeting the myriad of people which make life interesting, and trying to give them a happy day. I applaud your daily goal, and thank you for doing the work that most of us only think of. You have inspired me to go out, and teach my children that each day brings an opportunity to help another person. Thank you, Reed.
Hi Reed,
So inspired by your story! What a beautiful thing to do during such a difficult time for so many. I know so many people that are struggling financially where I live. I thank you for your posts and wish you much luck in your future work endeavors.
Be well, Stephanie
I have to say, I loved the article and I love this idea. I had to share you on my blog, because I love inspiration!
Thanks for your example. I will be following with great interest.
http://hilltopstar.blogspot.com/2010/03/real-news-year-of-giving.html
Thank you for doing what you do to help people. I hope and Pray all good things comeback to you. God Bless You! The world needs more people like you.
Hello Reed,
I moved to France two years ago but am originally from Washington DC. I haven’t been able to find work here (i’m a registered nurse, however my nursing degree isn’t accepted in France.) After reading about your wonderful project, it really turned a particularly tough day around for me, so thank you very much.
Hello,
I stumbled upon your story online and found it fascinating. I have been following ever since. I wish i was as drivin as you to get out there and document, daily, those i help and continue to do it every single day. You give lots of people something to look forward to. You dont realize the lives you are touching by such a simple act of giving what you feel is so little, but to me $10 is alot. For someone who has nothing, a little is A LOT. So keep on giving because you are inspiring so many and making a difference in the lives of people across the world. For people like me who are unable to get out, we need to hear about the good in people like you and the fantastic things you are doing. Keep up the good work. God will bless you exceedingly. He promises us this when we give though we dont have anything to give. May God always be you guide.
Nicole
Wonderful and inspiring idea. Thanks for helping us understand the meaning of giving.
Hi Mr. Happy-Virus =D
Dear Reed,
It was such a pleasure to meet you today. How lucky we were to meet you in that crowd. John and I were very amazed about your inspiring stories. I thought you were very brave to act on giving while many of us just learned mentally. Thank you for letting us be part of your beautiful act of giving. What an invaluable experience for you as well!!
The Cherry Blossoms were gorgeous, but your inspiring stories were “Icing on the cake”. I am very excited for many other people who will get inspired by your stories.
-Johnna (John&Donna)
I saw the local report on NBC4 about the “Year of Giving.” I think it’s an amazing, powerful thing you’re doing, Reed. I have a career suggestion for you– become an AUTHOR. If those involved would agree to it, the material from this site would make a great inspirational book.
…Best of luck to you. I hope your work as a “goodwill ambassador” will continue beyond the 365 days as your kindness continues to touch people’s lives in new ways!
-Aldine
I would give you back the $10 with instructions to give the next person $20. Hopefully, people would keep this going, and a more significant amount would be given to the person in the most need. Thanks for doing this! Free hug!
Heard about your project on NPR yesterday, Reed. Just wanted to drop a note and say what a great/inspirational idea. Best of luck on this journey of yours.
What a great project you have started! I am so impressed. I would like to do this, but I always feel like I have nothing more to give. This makes me want to figure out how to find some money somehow. I teach 4th grade. Maybe I’ll ask them and see if they can help me figure out a way. Thank you for inspiring others!
I love the idea of involving your students. As a teacher I know you know that children are not to be underestimated when it comes to creative ways to do things. I hope you will share with us what you end up doing. It looks like you are in LA…if you were in DC area I would love to talk to your students and help you and them create something amazing together.
Jennifer, what if you had the kids draw or make beautiful spring pictures, and deliver them to people on a nice day or to a hospital? homeless or not a picture hand made by a child will always put a smile on peoples faces ;o) after all, you don’t always have to give money, i think this would be a neat idea!!
Hi Reed
In one of those online coincidences, I came across your site and journey. Thank you for sharing this year.
I’m sure you will be more changed than anyone whose life you touch, and I look forward to following your footsteps over the remainder of your year.
Kind regards
Anthony
Olá! Boa tarde Senhor Reed Sandrige, tomei conhecimento da sua história na revista “Sabado” e achei um gesto muito bonito, acho que demonstra ter um bom coração.
È logico que algumas pessoas possam reagir mal porque não é um gesto muito comum. Gostáva muito que existessem mais pessoas em todo o mundo com boas intênções, talvéz existisse mais paz. Eu sou Portuguesa estou em processo litigioso de divorcio e com 4 filhos trabalho e estudo e admiro todas as pessoas que fazem algo de util na vida. Já estive desenpregada e sei o que isso custa, mas fui a luta e hoje sou a Padeira de um dos Supermercados Pingo Doce. Tenha esperança que tudo vai correr bem. Com os melhores cumprimentos.
simple, & NOT SAPPY!!! Thanks for making Good Samaritan cool again.
I absolutely adore what you are doing. It is such an inspiration to me as well as many other people. With all the negativity about unemployment, you are the needle in the haystack. Its amazing how someone can turn something negative in their life into such a positive opportunity. I love meeting new people and hearing about their stories, and will keep up with your daily interactions!
Wow… you are truly an inspiration! Not too long ago at church my Pastor spoke about this exact thing – though I am not sure he got it from you – he said that we should all walk out that afternoon and hand someone $10! For no particular reason at all but to share the joy and the gift of giving. Although its not always $10, I usually hand my local newspaper guy a $5 for the paper (which I never read), he is always so grateful and of course I always drive off with a huge smile on my face and my heart beating with joy! I wish you the best of luck during the next 243 days! And I definitely look forward to reading more of your daily stories! God bless!
I read an online article about you & the project you’ve started. I was first intrigued to click on the article because it mentioned you losing your job & GIVING AWAY money.. This isnt something you hear about often.
But more than that, in this life, I have learned & witnessed that the key to happiness & abundance is selflessness. When you do good things to others and dont expect anything in return is when all the pieces in your own life seem to come together seemlessly.
This ‘Year of Giving’ project is exactly what this world needs. And I do believe that it will take you places you never thought you’d go.
You’ve already touched so many people and I know you’ve inspired me to be even more giving.
I hope this continues beyond a year.
You are a phenomenal man with a very giving heart. I sat here reading your recipients stories for the past hour and really enjoyed them. I will join you on June 15 in giving $10 and will post you my story.. (i will give other days, as well) my mom always taught us “you have to give with your heart, not with what you think they will do with it” I constantly give to homeless people.. i get mixed feelings from friends, positive sometimes, but mostly negative comments like “oh they will buy alcohol or drugs”. I always say you have to give with your heart and not with what you think theyll do with it. Giving is a wonderful trait, and you will go very far in life. ;o) I hope your story will spark MANY domino effect stories and this world will be a much happier place with people giving! God bless you and your journey. I am not far from DC maybe i will see you one day! good luck to you and may god watch over you and your recipients!
Dear Reed:
As a single mom of a young son, I am thrilled to hear that you learned about giving and altruism from your mom. Obviously, she did a remarkable job with you.
As a parent, I continue to seek ways to walk the talk, and raise a good human being. I feel it’s the most important job on earth. A few times we bought the order of the car behind us inline at Starbucks or a fast food restaurant. The feeling of doing that, not even knowing their reaction, is tremendous. We volunteer, donate, etc. But your idea is terrifi…we will add to our mix of trying to do a little good. Thanks for the inspiration. My son looks at me sometimes like I’m a little nutty to be buying strangers coffee or lunch. My only hope in doing these things is so that it gets passed along. And that it registers with my son. Your note gives me hope that it will impact him in a positive way.
We’ll continue to check your website for updates. Add one more voice to the chorus of strangers saying “thank you, good luck”, and I hope a perfect new career oppty comes your way. In the mean time, consider a book. You have the makings of a best-seller right here.
All the best to you,
Cath
Reed, When I came across your story today I was blown away! I work in a non profit doing home visiting and assessments in some very impoverished areas. I was raised in NOVA where most people have more than they could ever need in a lifetime. I am always amazed at how some people stray away from altruism. As a social worker I feel it matters to contribute to our community in whatever way works..just do something. I too have been blessed to have a loving and giving mother who showed me the joy of putting a smle on another’s face. I live by the journey “I have never met a stranger”. I don’t care who you are, you deserve my repect..unless I see reason for caution. We all deserve a smile and hello don’t we? Life is tough enough without people being rude. I expalin to my kids everyday how blessed they are and tell them all the time..”There but for the grace of God go I” My favorit quote is ” A 100 years from now it will not matter the size of my bank account, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove..but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child” or in your case showing human compassion. Karma will come to you from this experience and your mother is surely beaming in heaven!! Nice Job Reed!!!
Reed – I fell upon your story today and I love it. There really is joy in giving. Ten years ago my 18 year old son died during a training mission with the Marine Corps. One day I was thinking about him and asked him, “What can I do to carry on for you?” “Coffee” popped into my head so my family and I buy coffee for any military personnel we see in any coffee shop we happen to be enjoying. We do it anonymously because it is not about us…it is about them and their families, letting them know how much we care. I love your idea and will definitely share it with my family. Thanks for the lesson.
Hi Reed. I work for a nonprofit as you did, and have found it to be my ‘calling,’ if you will. Apparently this project is your calling and is therefore the reason for your layoff. It may sound silly, but there is truly a reason for everything. Keep up the great “work” – what a legacy to leave!
You are truly an insipiriation to us all! At a time when we are all caught up with our own shortcomings and lives, you have given us all the opportunity to recall and reflect on the teachings of those who have impacted us the most. Thank you for paying it forward and allowing many of us to smile.
Reed,
My father also lost his battle with heart disease on Dec. 15, 2006. What a wonderful way to honor your mother’s memory. I just found your site, but am truly enjoying it and the spirit of giving you are spreading. I wish you luck in your project and your job search as well.
Jill, I am so sorry to hear that we share something so tragic. Hopefully we can each take comfort in knowing that someone else out there understands what we went through on that day. Thank you for your note. Stay strong. -Reed
Hi Reed,
I am a teacher and started a production company with my best friend in order to make a difference in the world. I was fascinated with your concept.
Whenever you get a chance please contact me (via e-mail) and we’ll share ideas to take the concept to another level. Please check out this link…..the message is powerful….”Together We Can Change the World”!
If unable to open link go to following site and video is on the front page:
http://www.letterstodaddy.com
Wow! I think you are great man. How interesting and “world changing.” Really. You should be the next “Bachelor.”
Hi Reed,
I stumbled across your website and was touched by your generosity… I to have a way of giving back. I teach my children to do at least one good thing for a stranger everyday. The good you do ALWAYS comes back to you. Keep up the good work!!!
Hi
Just read your story on AOL NEWS! What a terrific story!
Good Luck and God Bless you and what you are doing. I too would like to do something like this, but am struggling myself. Perhaps knowing that you are, has inspired me. Will keep in touch and once again I hope you soon find a job and perhaps you could write a book and keep the project going!
Bobbie
Tuesday, December 15, 2009 was my last day on my job. “Reduction in Force” is how the letter read. I don’t remember how many days after that I was visiting my family in Mississippi in a small Gulf Coast town still struggling to rebuild from Katrina. I still have a house there, except for a few repairs still needed, the 5 bedroom house on 3 acres is in livable condition, but has been empty since a year after Katrina.
A ran across an old friend. He and his family were living with relatives trying to put their lives together. Jobs are scare since the closing of the paper mill and the decreased demand for shipbuilding skills. There’s not much else to do for work.
For 6 months, my friend, his wife, and two beautiful children are living in my home, rent free for 6 months and a nominal amount for the second 6 months. I’m struggling to keep the mortgage paid, but I’m living in Virginia with my family. I believe with all my heart, that God will bless everybody involved.
I’m praying for your blessing as well!
I loved your story and commend your mother for teaching you such valuable lessons that are priceless in life. And you – for taking those lessons and enlightening yourself, and others, with them.
This immediately reminded me of a story that happened a few years ago with my children and the lesson I taught them by the same concept.
My friend was doing a fundraiser for children’s cancer research with her co-workers in their medical office building. They were shaving their heads (yes, females!, shaving their heads!) in support and honor of the children going through this horrible disease and losing their hair in order to raise funds for the research effort.
My budget was very tight that week when I recieved the donation email for any contributions towards the cause. I decided that $10.00 (yes your magic number, which reminded me of your story!), I could part with and make up somewhere else in order to contribute to their noble efforts.
My two boys were there when I went to pledge the donation and I explained to them what I was doing. “Even though the the $10.00 cuts into my budget, it’s for a great cause and I’ll work it out somewhere else in order to do a good thing for someone else, which in turn – will return a positive to me, even if it’s just that feeling of knowing that I made an impact -which is worth way more than the $10.00”. I went on to explain the concept of giving with your heart without expectation and putting “good” out into the world, and in turn, receiving “good” back – even if it it is just that smile and feeling knowing that you were a part of it. They digested the concept and basically said “Yeah Mom, that’s a nice thing to do.”. So much for my impact! lol
Okay, my heart has been filled with goodness, and I take the dog for a walk around the block…smiling all the way. 🙂
As I was returning, I look down on the sidewalk and what do I see?? A $20.00 bill laying in the grass in the middle of nowhere!!?? I picked it up and smiled even bigger to return home and hold it up to tell my boys “Okay, now this definitely is a great example of karma!!!” Needless to say, my point got across. The best part of this was not the $20.00 that I found but the lesson that was taught to them, which was priceless to me.
They’ve never forgotten the selfless gesture and lesson that day and I know they’ll carry it through the rest of their lives.
Thank you for the smile and the reminder that even if it’s just a simple action, it not only effects those you touch, but also yourself, which again…is priceless!!
I can’t even begin to tell you how your story has touched me. I find it amazing that someone would take the time and effort that you have with this venture. It will be amazing to find out how many lives are touched by doing this giving. It is NOT the $10 but the meaning behind it. I will be following your updates and will be looking for opportunities to do “acts of kindness” to people I come into contact with on a daily basis. Thank you for helping me become a better person to others!
Reed, I love your spirit of generousity! Even though you are giving expecting nothing in return, you are inadvertantly putting into effect the principle of “sowing and reaping” spoken of by Jesus, ” Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Luke 6:38 Your giving is enriching you and will materialize in both spiritual and physical results. I will be continuing to follow your story to see the blessings unfold.
This is not really a comment but something I feel needs to be said. For the last 3 years I have tried to get a grant to help my family. My father was injured in an accident and my parents are loosing their home. I came there hoping to help them but ended up putting myself into major financial mess. Recently filed bankruptcy just after my father passed away. Now trying to take care of my mother. We are staying in the house but we now have plumbing issues and mold that I can’t fix. Why fix it anyway they are going to kick us out anyway.
So lately I have been thinking about how to write a blog and discuss things with others. One thing would be the tea party’s what good are they. The politicians forgot about WE THE PEOPLE a long time ago it now We the Politicians they don’t listen. I have written to different political figures in the State of Nevada and even Washington. One denial I got state we don’t pay for Vacations that is when I tried to get a grant to go to China to work with and endangered Species the Giant Panda. So there was a number and I called. The head of the department said we don’t pay for vacation and I told him that they help animals and that was what I was going to do I was going to work at Wolang as a volunteer. He then said we only give money to government employees, but who pays his salary WE THE PEOPLE DO. Then when I tried to get help for my parents I was basicly laughed at once again by some of our politicians. What we really need to do is say STOP. WE THE PEOPLE need to stop voting and say there needs to be change for all. When my grandmother came here as a child she learned how to speak English and we need to say to become a citizen you need to learn how to speak english. We need to stand up for the elderly, military service men and women and their families, childrens education, our police and fire. The Heads of state should take pay cuts and stop hurting so many people. I am a women that is trying so hard to take care of my parents and let them have the quality of life they deserve. My father is gone now he passe January 16, 2010 and he was in so much pain that he could not take care of his family the way he wanted to.
Dear Reed,
I started reading your blog yesterday afternoon, and finally finished around 11:00 p.m. last night in between taking care of my family and preparing dinner, etc.. It is such a wonderful thing you are doing as many have already written, but you are truly impacting thousands of people!
This morning I was thinking, “What could I do with $10 that may make a difference in someone’s life”, and when I turned on the radio, I found my answer. They were talking about how the Powerball Lottery is estimated up to 252 million dollars for tonight’s drawing, so I thought I would purchase ten tickets and disperse them to people.
It was difficult to just pick ten as I saw a lot of people that could probably benefit from either the winnings or at least a smile and acknowledgement from someone today. Most of the people were really surprised and happy when I talked with them and handed them the tickets with the only catch being that they had to tell me one thing they would do with some of the money…
Here are their answers:
1. “I would help our kids and travel.”
2. “I would donate half to charity.”
3. “I would hire a chauffer to drive me to work and a chef to make me healthy meals.”
4. “I would help my aunt.”
5. “I would give some to our kids and some to the church.”
6. “With a bunch of it, I would give it to my kids and grandkids. I would also pay off some of the parish debt.”
7. “I would give some of the money to a nursing home because my Grandma is in one.”
8. “I won’t win.”
9. “I will give you $1,000,000. I would give a lot away. I would pay off (church) debt.”
10. “I don’t want it; bad things happen to people who win the lottery.” (He still took the ticket, though;))
A lot of different answers, but most of them smiled and became excited at the prospect of winning and were in shock at the idea of someone just giving them each a ticket. We will see if any of them are winners!
Even though each ticket only cost $1, it was a super neat experience to do this today! I can understand how you are enjoying your “Year of Giving” and I hope many others share stories of how they give, too. I will keep you posted if anyone actually wins the Powerball!
Wish them luck!!!
Thank you for what you are doing and best wishes in your future! You will long be remembered…
Andrea, this is amazing! I bet it was fun doing this too, wasn’t it. I love how you captured their response for what they would do with it and shared with us here. This is bit of a taste of what is to come on June 15th. I expect we will have many emails similar to this. Thanks for taking the time to talk to the people you gave to. I am wishing them all luck! -Reed
PS. Where do you live?
Hello Reed,
Thank you for the reply! I am from Wisconsin. None of the tickets I gave away were winners this time, but it was still a great experience! I will definitely participate in June 15th, and I look forward to helping others when I am able.
Keep up the great work and thank you for the inspiration:)
Hello Reed.
I read an article about you on the Korean web site, went through your homepage and thought that it is such a great project. I am so impressed and just wanted to say you are making someone smile. Even in the world.. by the posts and videos. Thank you!
Mibang
in Korea
The need to pay it forward comes from an interesting place in ones life. Each reason one has for doing it is both unique and the same as others. I believe we want to “Be The Change” in our own little way and you have certainly touched a nerve in providing a feel good moment every day as well as inspiring many others to do the same. I will participate in June’s Day of Giving, but wanted to get a jump on it in April. The $10 (in your honor) I gave yesterday was to a man standing outside a Wal-Mart with a Homeless Veteran sign. I originally drove by him the first time, but backtracked and spoke to him as I pulled over. I also presented him with a cookie just purchased from a local bakery. He was genuinely surprised and his response was priceless- “That’s wonderful. I like cookies!”. I’m enjoying your blog. Hope it’s as much fun writing as it is reading.
Awesome! Way to go Mike! Where are you located at? -Reed
Thanks Reed. I’m up in Connecticut.
Hi, I just read your story and I think your are doing an excellent job at helping those that are less unfortunate. I am also a recovering alcoholic. Today is my anniversary of 3 years and 6 months clean. I am unemployed at the moment and just came close to landing an excellent paying job. The only thing was that I didn’t have enough computer experience. I applied for the position of Computer & Technology Technician. I just went on-line to go to school @ Porter & Chester Institute College, to get a degree; either L-6 or E2 license. Monday the school will be calling me about Financial Aid Assistance. I tell you GOD is GOOD all the time. My next store neighbor just handed me $5.00 for a job well done; for improving my life to make things a lot better and keep my sobriety. Keep up the good work and you are in my prayers for keeping the FAITH. Stay strong and BE WELL. Sincerely, CYNTHIA S.
I listened to your story on Q92 Radio aired in Canton/Alliance, Ohio and was truely inspired! So many people do want to give or help others and really don’t know how. I think it was awesome for you to just “get your hands dirty” so to speak and go out there! There are so many major charities that spend more money marketing for people to donate, and they miss the personal importance of what their mission should be! March of Dimes donates 76% to research and that does seem like a lot… but with what you have created, thats the whole percentage 😉 God will richly bless you… Keep Smiling!
Jenn
I can’t help but continue to share this w/others. So many have a life unlived-
Reed – I stumbled upon your site today while doing a Google search for “Giving people money to give away to help others”. I was looking for some information to help me take the next step in a project that I initiated a short while back. I put forth a challenge to find six people to whom I could give $50 and the only hitch was, they had to find a creative way to use the money to bless someone else that has greater needs than they do. The purpose of my Google search was to gather some information that I could use to help my recipients collect information about how their gifts were used to bless others. I was pleased to stumble upon your blog and am humbled and encouraged by what you have been doing for the past 136 days.
You have inspired me to take my initial idea and try to figure out how I can scale it to have a greater impact on a larger number of people.
Thank you for making a difference in the lives of those of us that have witnessed your story. I wish there was a way to quantify the impact you will have beyond the $10/day that you are personally giving.
kudos to you! i am a 36 year old business professional and after nearly 14 years of dedicated and exemplary service and despite being told after numerous inquiries that the ‘changes’ we were seeing internally were just adjustments to the changing economy, i was laid off from my corporate job in columbus, ga at the end of last year. for the first time in my life i as well had to find my purpose and my way. one thing i have learned that is more valuable than any paycheck is that my happiness endures even greater now that i am not owned. now that i am out of the rat race i can clearly see the headaches and heartaches that my old colleagues still swallow each day just to cope with the corporate bullshit. i now realize that no job is worth my sanity and no matter how good an employer says they treat you and look out for you, never let your guard down. at the end of the day, you’re just a number.
it is a pleasure to see you doing what you do, and i hope i can carry some of your wisdom and desire to help others as i travel each day.
GREAT Story and Inspiration to all. About 7 years ago, my church gave 170 Small Groups $100 each ($17,000 total) and said ‘Go do something Good and report back’. Lives were changed and the stories were incredible. Most groups decided to contribute more money and do more.
Recently my family was at a restaurant and my young son took a few pennies to the cashier and asked to exchange them for a quarter to get a piece of candy from the machine. The lady smiled, took the pennies and gave him a quarter from the cash register — and made him a very proud, happy boy. We then watched the lady get her purse out, take her own quarter and place back in the cash register so the drawer wasn’t short. It was such a small, yet caring, act and we were touched. Later I approached the lady, said how we appreciated her kindness and honesty — and I gave her a $20 bill. She tried to refuse and I said, If you don’t need it, then give it to someone who does.
Keep going with your Mission and God Bless.
Hello Reed! I was deeply touched when I saw on the news today, your story. I feel a whole new redemption on people again. About 19 years ago, I left New York after trying to get homeless kids off of drugs and back to their families. This was due to the fact that I had become homeless and someone with a very good heart took me off of the streets and only asked in return, to return the favor. So he helped me get a job and then every day after working the diner, I would meet up with my friend and go to Ave. A and try to talk with the homeless kids , to get them off of drugs and get them back home. Every sunday I would wake up to help this person make falafals at 5a.m. so that we could feed the homeless in Central Park. This one kid, was only 3 years younger than I was at the time, was very lost and heavily into heroin. I managed to help her get off and was ready to send her home to her parents, but she left the “safe haven”, and ended up overdosing, which resulted in her death. I was completely lost because I felt that I had failed her, but I was also very young. Nevertheless, I felt that I needed to find myself, so I stuck my thumb out and hitched across the U.S. I kept journals during my 8 month searching. I met up with horrible experiences and people, but for every nine bad experiences, there would be one person or family that would be the light at the end of the tunnel, you see, they were good. Perfectly good strangers would lend a hand to me by either, giving me a ride,food, a blanket, a dollar, a roof over my head for a night. This all was a complete testament to me that the world is not all bad, people are not all bad! I met so many good people and I have not been able to keep in touch or repay them. So instead I try to practice this selfless giving in my daily life because I might run into another young me , who needs it. I have too much more to say but I am taking so much space, so Thank You. I still need to be reminded that people like you are here and I need to continue helping others. Thank you and your mother as well.
You are a gift!
you are truly a great man. I know your mom is very proud of you, I just hope I can be a good influence so my kids grow up to be as caring and giving as you. The world would be a much better place if everyone was as thoughtful as you. keep up the good work, good luck to you and your family!
I, like the rest of the world, saw your story on CNN. Loved it! What a great way to spend a year.
You are truly an inspiration! For me, hearing about your ‘ideal’ came at a crucial moment. I had just logged on to the internet. I went to e-mail and searched a certain bank account # sent to me by my young friend (in Africa)whom I’m compelled to help. I have been otherwise influenced by others that it is NOT the right thing to do. They tell me I can help more by contributing to THEIR organization which in turn will help ALL the people THEY reach. I was momentarily confused as I was told I would be ‘spreading helplessness’ and encouraging the spirit of poverty. (I was advised to read the book, ‘When Helping Hurts’ – or something like that). My aim was to spread ‘help’ and ‘love’ and hope that this person will ‘pay it forward’. Well, as I sat here and determined I AM doing the right thing, especially since it is what my heart is telling me to do…from the living room (CNN) I heard something about ‘giving’. I went to view and listened WITH MY HEART! Today is the day of GIVING and like you, I WILL!
Glad I was on your tv at just that moment. Follow your heart. Reed
My name is Angela and would like some help finding someone to talk to. I having been battling depression most of my life, and would like to talk to someone who would understand and listen. Thanks
Anybody have some good resources out there for Angela (free ones)? If we don’t come up with someone who comes from a formal background of this, I am happy to talk with you. If someone doesn’t post something in the next 24 hours, drop me an email at reed@yearofgiving.org with your phone number and we’ll set up a time to talk. Hang in there! Reed
Hi, Reed.
I’ve been secretly addicted to your website for months and started to wonder why I was “secretly” addicted. I shared your story with a few of my friends and to be honest, received a lukewarm response. I am so disappointed that they didn’t seem as impressed/inspired as I have been. I’ve made a few subtle changes in my life and have made a commitment to myself to try and do something kind for someone once a week. In the last few months, I might have missed 2-3 weeks without purposefully/consciously doing so but for the most part I have stuck to that. I won’t take up your time with the details. Anyway, it’s amazing what a difference that has made in my life…for me. So…thanks.
By the way…(this is a little off subject but…) if you ever read for enjoyment I recommend the book, “The Shack”, by William P. Young. If you haven’t already read it…no matter what your religious/spritual inclination it’s message is positive and uplifting. Not unlike yours in a way.
Warm, happy wishes…
Tina
I just read your article in Womans World (a magazine I get each week because I feel it is good for everyone) and I was very impressed. It is wonderful that you started this in memory of your mother and I know that she is looking at you from a higher place and thanking you for it. It is a wonderful thing and I know that it is not the money so much as the wonderful feeling that you receive when giving to someone else. My thoughts are that you give something to someone else (no matter what you use as your gift) and once it leaves your hands it is in theirs to do as they wish. If they wish to pass it on to someone else then the circle becomes bigger. One day the circle will be completely around the world. Thanks again for doing what you are doing for the good of everyone. God Bless you.
Thanks for the kind words Sandy. Glad you enjoyed the article. All the best, Reed
This is a wonderful idea! Louise Hay would definitely approve. “Bless and prosper those around you. Bless and prosper yourself,” she always says. By giving $10 to people, you are affirming to the universe that you have the funds with which to give away that money all the time. I would be surprised if, at some point, your income (or bank account) doesn’t balloon to new heights. 🙂
With Love and Gratitude,
The Intentional Sage
Hi Reed,
Thank you for this project. I’m the editor-in-chief of a parenting magazine in the Philippines. As you know, the Philippines is in the news for the hostage crisis, and the whole country’s grieving and taking a lot of backlash. We needed inspiration — and your project really lifted my spirits. I posted the link to your blog with this message:
“This guy lost his job and decided he wouldn’t wallow in self pity or get angry at the world (hello, Mendoza). Instead, he would give $10 a day to somebody who needed the money more, and documented his experience in this blog. “It’s precisely in these times that we need to give more,” he said. Who can we help today? What can we give? Money, time, compassion. There is always something we can give.”
Thank you for the hope.
Dedet P., editor-in-chief, Working Mom magazine
Hi Dedet, I’m touched that you have found my story potentially uplifting to your readers. I hope that during this time of mourning some people can find hope and strength. It is terrible that we live in a world where this sort of thing happens…that eight innocent tourists and Mr. Mendoza had to die like they did. My heart goes out to you, your family, your readers and all those who have been touched by this tragic reminder of how volatile our lives can be. -Reed
You are very good.
I’m very pleased that a friend’s twitter post alerted me to your blog. I’m amazed not only by your incredible year but also by the outpouring I see here from people all over the world in support of what you’ve done. Doesn’t that stand as a hopeful testimony to the future of this little planet? I intend to share this site with my children when they come home from school today.
Hello Reed!
Nice project! few mins ago saw about you in TV news and …find your site here. So, my greeting from Ukraine!:)
Tany.
Hi Tany! Spaciba for your kind message, glad to know that the Year of Giving has reached Ukraine!!! – Reed
Hi, Reed!
I saw about you in TV too! I am so glad to see that! I want your Blog to read, but I can English no so good ((( I am understand no all.
I wisch you good luck und be happy!
From Russia!
Hi there, first of all: thumb up to your initiative, wish there were lots of people as you, unfortunately it´s not so.
I´ve been moved to write on your blog, from Spain, not just to congratulate you by such a great initiative, but to spread out another initiative i tried to launch but that unfortunately didn´t was able to get support enough to make it real. As you can see the blog it´s written in spanish and sorry not to have time to translate it, basically relate several months on which this Foundation said my initiative was great and will be heard , i eventually i found out that they were just laughing at me.
Basically i addressed to a “supposedly” non-profit Foundation, called FUNDACION CONFIANZA, which tried to move the entrepeneurial soul of lots of entrepeneurs here at Spain (so battered by the economic scenario we are going through), based on the idea that this people are the ones on charge to create jobs on the society; so i came up with the idea that if every renowned person that particpated in their millionarie tv campaign will help just one entrepeneur to set afloat his business, only assigning to this entrepeneurs with 10 or 15 minutes of their time, this gesture will mean so much and help those busineses to push accross so powerfully, that other famous people will follow the initiative, and many jobs will be created, helping many people out.
So in short, i think is not so difficult that famous people could help entrepeneurs to push accross theis businesses, that way many jobs would be created and the economic situation will improve efficiently. The initiative is nor asking for money to these famous people but for 10 minutes of their time.
I started to wirte my blog by april 5th, since after the promise of that organisation to hear my proposal i found out that their were just laughing at me, and had to give up by august 5 th.
So since you apparently have been able to appeal to the media to your initiative (i saw it on the news here at spain) , don´t you think this might be a really prollific cause to back up that well implemented could help not just those businesses but to many people…. if so, please i encourage you to lead it on, 10 minutes of a famous person might be really powerful for a small business (in any country).
If you don´t see this initiative is so good, or you can´t bak it up, i really would appreciate to give me some directions about how to capture media attention, this is key.
thanks and congratulations anyway
Hi, Reed!
I’m from Russia. Sorry my very bad English, it’s difficult to put into English words to me. So I just want to express my respect to you! I saw reportage about you on TV news few days ago. You are very kind, and I wish you Good luck!
Elena
Hello, Reed!
Your story has impressed me very much. One of the reasons why I admire your action is, that I’m not sure whether I could do something similar.
Greetings from Moldova & Bulgaria!
Reed,
Just wanted to say it was good meeting you (DC to Chicago, 10/3). I hope you are enjoying your visit to the Windy City.
This is a great project. I can see I am going to spend a lot of time reading previous posts and looking forward to new posts. 🙂
Good luck on the rest of your journey.
Kate
I found out about your project through a Kindness course from Andy Smallman. What an inspiration! The amount of money makes no difference–what matters is just the act of being kind and recognizing others in even small ways. So much of our daily interactions involve rushing past others without even acknowledging on another. I’ve turned my vice (Starbucks) into something good by always buying for whoever is in line behind me (it’s really fun in the drive thru!). I didn’t come up witht the idea–a woman I met told me she did and I started about a year and a half ago. It has profoundly changed my life. I’ve had every reaction you can imagine–some have even said no but come up to me afterwards and said they were just shocked–no one has ever done anything like that for them before. I had someone who’s parent had just passed away. I’ve seen it all–been hugged, kissed, and most of all truly blessed by being able to even be a speck of of joy in someone’s day. My hat is off to you for not only doing this but sharing it with so many others. It’s contagious!
Tracy
Hello,I am a CHina student. I read you deeds so I am very moved and convulsed. MY MSN is sky31@live.cn can I make a friend with you?
Hi Sky, thanks for the note. I don’t use MSN, but you can connect on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/yearofgiving. -Reed
Giving is one thing, inspiring is another. I applaud your goal of giving to inspire. You have inspired many, including myself.
Pamela
Hi Reed!
I just met you walking from Foggy Bottom to Dupont. I’m home now and looking at your website, and thinking of so many questions I should have asked you! I love what you’re doing and I’m so glad that I met you. I hope to see you soon, even if I can’t make it on the 14th!
All the best,
Sarah
Wow–what an incredible project! Kind of reminds me of that old movie Pay it Forward…hopefully the recipients of your $10 will in turn do something altruistic for others. The power of one person is magnificent.
Dr. Wayne Baker from the University of Michigan actually did an interesting series on giving in his blog this past week–check it out at:
http://OurValues.org
Hi Reed, I thought your blog would be some good reading this past year and I was right. How quickly the year has gone! But it was more than that. It inspired me to give differently (I wrote back on April 23rd about it). And it made me at least think differently when seeing people I would generally avoid. That’s what I was always taught anyway- avoid the “strange” people. Now I’m not saying my whole world has changed, but however subtle, a little has changed. I always believe everyone has a story to tell and most people want to tell someone it. For the most part, they just want to be asked first. So thanks for doing the ask. Congratulations on your Year of Giving and if I was in DC, I’d definitely be attending your celebration!
Cheers to you.
Mike
Good to hear from you Mike…it’s touching that in somehow the Year of Giving has made you think differently about some things. I certainly see things differently now than I did 359 days ago. Stay tuned for next year’s adventure which will be some fresh voices giving away the $10 (if you know any out of work people willing to do this, let me know) and I’m making a commitment around volunteering and will be sharing those adventures! All the best, Reed
Thanks Reed. I look forward to hearing/reading about your latest adventures. As for out of work people willing, why not- I’ll do it. I’ve been out since June of 2009 and would be willing and able to carry on the torch for a week or so. I’ll ask others and let you know if I find someone else. Let me know what the next steps are that you have in mind. Best, Mike
That’s awesome Mike! I will email you about next steps!
Hi Reed,
Great idea. I just read about your project on Huffington Post. Suggesting that unemployed people consider volunteering is a really good idea and one that I wish was more widely encouraged. I’m sure it will help them as much or more than it will help others.
Sincerely,
Jenny
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